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You realize that sometimes you're not okay, you level off, you level off, you level off...
			
		
		
			
				
																			
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								by Iseveryoneok   »  11/25/2004, 7:28 pm 
			
			
			
			
			
			Why do the guys i tend to go out with either abuse or play me... thats not really the question. well it is and it isnt. not me specifically but guys in general.... i no longer trust myself or my feelings because i stay in the relationship, and obviously that makes it my own fault but... i dunno... i guess this has just become a rant. respond if you care.  
    
			
			
									
						
										
						 
		 
				
		
		 
	 
				
		
		
			
				
																			
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								by Joey   »  11/25/2004, 7:33 pm 
			
			
			
			
			
			because you're probably nice and sweet so the guys take advantage of that and play you .. because guys are assholes that way 
 
			
			
									
						
										
						 
		 
				
		
		 
	 
				
		
		
			
				
																			
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								by Iseveryoneok   »  11/25/2004, 7:37 pm 
			
			
			
			
			
			are there any guys who ARENT assholes like that? cuz i mean... i cant seem to find any.
			
			
									
						
										
						 
		 
				
		
		 
	 
				
		
		
			
				
																			
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								by Henrietta   »  11/25/2004, 7:38 pm 
			
			
			
			
			
			Well first off...welcome.  What's your name? I haven't seen you before... 
 
Second off, I have the same problem.  I do know there are sweet, worthwhile guys out there.  While I tend to never get one...I have seen them.
			
			
									
						
										
						 
		 
				
		
		 
	 
				
		
		
			
				
																			
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								by Joey   »  11/25/2004, 7:39 pm 
			
			
			
			
			
			i don't think there's very many unasshole guys out there 
i can't find one either 
 
but they do exist ... somewhere
 
			
			
									
						
										
						 
		 
				
		
		 
	 
				
				
		
		
			
				
																			
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								by Iseveryoneok   »  11/25/2004, 7:43 pm 
			
			
			
			
			
			my name is deanna. and thank you. i have been on this board as InnocentDe but i cant remember that password. =) and glad to know im not alone in this. any guys wanna defend themselves here?
			
			
									
						
										
						 
		 
				
		
		 
	 
				
		
		
			
				
																			
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								by Joe Cooler   »  11/25/2004, 7:46 pm 
			
			
			
			
			
			Sure. I'd never take advantage of anyone and i'm sure there are many guys who feel the same way.
			
			
									
						
										
						 
		 
				
		
		 
	 
				
		
		
			
				
																			
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								by Lando   »  11/25/2004, 7:48 pm 
			
			
			
			
			
			I'm with you taylor. In a non-homosexual way.
			
			
									
						
										
						 
		 
				
		
		 
	 
				
		
		
			
				
																			
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								by Joe Cooler   »  11/25/2004, 7:49 pm 
			
			
			
			
			
			Thanks man.
			
			
									
						
										
						 
		 
				
		
		 
	 
				
		
		
			
				
																			
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								by Lando   »  11/25/2004, 7:49 pm 
			
			
			
			
			
			And no I don't want to defend guys, because even I say it. Most guys are assholes.
			
			
									
						
										
						 
		 
				
		
		 
	 
				
		
		
			
				
																			
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								by Joe Cooler   »  11/25/2004, 7:50 pm 
			
			
			
			
			
			It's true, most guys are.
			
			
									
						
										
						 
		 
				
		
		 
	 
				
		
		
			
				
																			
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								by Lando   »  11/25/2004, 7:54 pm 
			
			
			
			
			
			The guy in your avatar seems like he's a pretty good guy though... but you never know... he does have a knife after all.
			
			
									
						
										
						 
		 
				
		
		 
	 
				
		
		
			
				
																			
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								by Joe Cooler   »  11/25/2004, 7:55 pm 
			
			
			
			
			
			And a plate, which is clearly more dangerous.
			
			
									
						
										
						 
		 
				
		
		 
	 
				
		
		
			
				
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								by nelison   »  11/25/2004, 7:56 pm 
			
			
			
			
			
			I think you need to look at the guys you're falling for. Are they all of the same type? Like do they act the same? have the same mannerisms? What seems to be the common link between all the guys you've been with? I think you'll find your answer there and you'll know what to look out for.
			
			
									
						
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								by Lando   »  11/25/2004, 7:58 pm 
			
			
			
			
			
			and if they all look the same. They could be clones of each other!
			
			
									
						
										
						 
		 
				
		
		 
	 
				
		
		
			
				
																			
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								by Lando   »  11/25/2004, 7:59 pm 
			
			
			
			
			
			Joe Cool wrote: And a plate, which is clearly more dangerous.
haha I honestly thought that was an egg...
 
			
			
									
						
										
						 
		 
				
		
		 
	 
				
		
		
			
				
																			
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								by Joe Cooler   »  11/25/2004, 8:00 pm 
			
			
			
			
			
			Well the jokes on you isnt it!
			
			
									
						
										
						 
		 
				
		
		 
	 
				
		
		
			
				
																			
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								by Joey   »  11/25/2004, 8:01 pm 
			
			
			
			
			
			it does look like an egg 
 
			
			
									
						
										
						 
		 
				
		
		 
	 
				
		
		
			
				
																			
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								by Axtech   »  11/25/2004, 8:02 pm 
			
			
			
			
			
			Go for the shy guys. We know how to treat a woman right.
			
			
									
						
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