To do when dating

Axtech · Post by **Axtech** » 6/19/2003, 4:43 pm

For Your Lungs Only wrote:and that helps make love look like a joke, like Carrot Top's career.

Man, you are on fire today!

Sufjan Stevens · Post by **Sufjan Stevens** » 6/19/2003, 4:44 pm

Axtech wrote:
For Your Lungs Only wrote:Hey, little Alan needs a friend you know. I haven't gotten laid in 10 months, and I am almost to the point of desperation.

16 years and counting.

I waited 18 year and 3 weeks before I got laid for the first time. A month later was my last time. I waited an extra two years before I got some, so when you turn 18 and are still a virgin, lemme know about how much it sucks. Until then you've got some time.

Axtech · Post by **Axtech** » 6/19/2003, 4:46 pm

Yeah, I'm in no hurry.

Sufjan Stevens · Post by **Sufjan Stevens** » 6/19/2003, 4:47 pm

Trust me on this, wait as long as possible. As soon as you get your first few times, it becomes a drug, and I've been oh so lucky to ween myself off of it for ten fucking months. God, why?

nelison · Post by **nelison** » 6/19/2003, 6:46 pm

ya I gotta agree that the word "love" is thrown around far too often. I think the full effect of the word has deminished in the last ten years.

Meh there's no hurry for sex anyways. The way I figure it is that you have decades of sex ahead of you, why rush it now with someone that will mean nothing to you?

Sufjan Stevens · Post by **Sufjan Stevens** » 6/19/2003, 7:22 pm

Well, when you find some one that you thought it would be worth having it with fucks you over for a long long time, it loses that intimate touch.

liam · Post by **liam** » 6/19/2003, 8:02 pm

Today didn't go well, i felt like shit all mornin, i'm going on 5th day of not eating, and i once again feel like a complete ass! God damn

emily · Post by **emily** » 6/19/2003, 8:06 pm

why are you not eating?

areusad831 · Post by **areusad831** » 6/19/2003, 8:15 pm

For Your Lungs Only wrote:Trust me on this, wait as long as possible. As soon as you get your first few times, it becomes a drug, and I've been oh so lucky to ween myself off of it for ten fucking months. God, why?

for me sex made things a whole lot worse, after that it just seemed like there was nothing left and well all we did was want to have sex. it also made other parts of relationship complicated. so kids dont have sex!

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 6/19/2003, 8:17 pm

did you ever consider that perhaps these symptoms of ass-ness are possibly brought about by, say, your self-induced starvation?

finding emo · Post by **finding emo** » 6/19/2003, 8:39 pm

I waited to have sex until I had a ring, and I have to say that I am completely happy by that decision. It was EXTREMELY hard to save my virginity, but it felt good getting to give it to the person I love more than anything than just "lose" it to some guy that would just brag about it to other guys. So, I, like most people, would tell you all to wait.

The world is too much of a "do what we hear on TV" and stuff like that. It really saddens me to know that my thirteen year old cousin had sex in a barn with a guy she broke up with two weeks later. What's society coming to? I'm not saying everyone has to wait, I'm just saying that there are other options that could possibly give you more happiness in the long run. Teens tend to think that after a relationship has been going on for a few months, it's time to have sex. They don't really consider the emotional involvement to it. It's just, "We've been dating four months, so it's expected of me." And I guess this here is just for girls, but... don't have sex with a guy just because you think that if you don't he'll break up with you (I guess that COULD happen to guys too)... If it was meant to be, he would respect your decisions and wait for when you're ready...

::sigh:: end of rant.

Sufjan Stevens · Post by **Sufjan Stevens** » 6/19/2003, 8:40 pm

I was just going to say that Alex. Thanks for cutting me off before I got to make the smartass comment. Just take my entire livelihood away from me, why don't you?

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 6/19/2003, 8:54 pm

Done and done.

mosaik · Post by **mosaik** » 6/19/2003, 11:14 pm

Naveeder Val wrote:Teens tend to think that after a relationship has been going on for a few months, it's time to have sex. They don't really consider the emotional involvement to it. It's just, "We've been dating four months, so it's expected of me."

it is possible to be in love with somebody without being married to them.

i'm only 20. marriage is not an option. but my ex and i are/were in love, there's no doubt about that.

we didn't start sleeping together because it was expected of us - at least i didn't. i did it because i wanted to.

but yeah. moral of story: it's really up to the two people having sex to decide if they want to or not. if they listen to anybody else, they're being silly.

liam · Post by **liam** » 6/20/2003, 7:32 am

happeninfish wrote:did you ever consider that perhaps these symptoms of ass-ness are possibly brought about by, say, your self-induced starvation?

well actualy i know its the starvation... but its not self-induced. I've been trying to eat, and whenever i do it feels like its gonna come back up... i threw up tuesday night when i was with her... she don't know that though...

Sufjan Stevens · Post by **Sufjan Stevens** » 6/20/2003, 10:52 am

Maybe you should go to a doctor before you kill yourself.

superboots · Post by **superboots** » 6/20/2003, 11:59 am

nah, this is what happens sometimes

my roomie said she couldn't eat for a week when she started dating her boyfriend. :lol:

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 6/20/2003, 1:44 pm

Yeah it happens... :neutral:

liam · Post by **liam** » 6/20/2003, 2:39 pm

fuck... i'm fucked

superboots · Post by **superboots** » 6/20/2003, 2:55 pm

dude
you're 14.
you'll be ok.

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To do when dating