OLPMazurite wrote:A pervasive pattern of social inhibition, feelings of inadequacy, and hypersensitivity to negative evaluation, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by four (or more) of the following:
avoids occupational activities that involve significant interpersonal contact, because of fears of criticism, disapproval, or rejection is unwilling to get involved with people unless certain of being liked shows restraint within intimate relationships because of the fear of being shamed or ridiculed is preoccupied with being criticized or rejected in social situations is inhibited in new interpersonal situations because of feelings of inadequacy views self as socially inept, personally unappealing, or inferior to others is unusually reluctant to take personal risks or to engage in any new activities because they may prove embarrassing
Should I be worried that every one of those applies to me in at least a small to moderate way (while others describe me quite well)?
Well, the people who are out with people, on dates and such, rather than spending way too much of their free time on a message board, where one can have social-ish relationships without any of the stresses and worries of the real life. They probably don't qualify for all of those.
A pervasive pattern of social inhibition, feelings of inadequacy, and hypersensitivity to negative evaluation, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by four (or more) of the following:
avoids occupational activities that involve significant interpersonal contact, because of fears of criticism, disapproval, or rejection is unwilling to get involved with people unless certain of being liked shows restraint within intimate relationships because of the fear of being shamed or ridiculed is preoccupied with being criticized or rejected in social situations is inhibited in new interpersonal situations because of feelings of inadequacy views self as socially inept, personally unappealing, or inferior to others is unusually reluctant to take personal risks or to engage in any new activities because they may prove embarrassing
Y'see, that really describes a whole lot of teens, though some handle it differently than others, obviously. So I wouldn't be too worried about it Rob.
I'm in the same boat more or less, except for the intimate relationship bit, which I am freakishly confident about when I get the chance.
Just because I am sexy, naked, a bassist, and sporting a top hat doesn't make me Duncan Coutts!
joe_canadian wrote:I'm in the same boat more or less, except for the intimate relationship bit, which I am freakishly confident about when I get the chance.
But are you sitting around waiting for the chance, or going out and searching for it? That's my problem.
ive been diagnosed as being shitzophrenic and clinically depressed. i was also almost diagnosed with having manic depression but i wasnt "happy enough" to be manic depressive. my high's werent high enough, my lows were inline with one with manic depression.