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I don't cry very often
and when I do it is just for a few seconds
it is really hard for me to have a good cry

and when I am sad, that's what i need to do
i need to cry and get all the sadness out and then i feel better

Clumsy7Thief wrote:I cry a lot too, but I try not to in front of ppl cuz it makes me feel weird, lol. But I cry over little things, like a song or something. Any time i do cry tho, I'm usually in my room.

ya me too, I usually cry when I'm myself in my room. Unless I'm really upset and stressed and just completely breakdown in front of a friend.

I cried twice in the past year. Once was I missed the Halloween Alkaline Trio show that I had tickets for, because I wrecked my car and had no way to get there. Bad day for Alan.

The other was after a Koufax concert when my ex finally dumped me. She started crying, then I started thinking, and yeah, I feel like a pussy. I didn't even like the girl that much. I guess I didn't want her to leave, seeing that we were together for about 9 months and all.

I cry all the time these days. And every time I do it ... I feel better, but really stupid.

i'm not having a very good day *sigh*

Me either.

i didn't go to work today, i've decided i'm going to spend all day in my pajamas in my room, watching moulin rouge *sigh*

someone i hate more than anything is coming over to my house. doesn't he understand i don't want him here? sigh.

Joey: yes I realize it's Welland and that we're from the same town. Give me some credit it was more meant for others. Worse comes to worst you could always hang out at Tim Hortons with the rest of Welland.

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Anyways, I think its time we try and cme up with solutions. It is a support thread but I think the goal for everyone is to get to a point where they don't need a thread like this.

Generally I'm a happy person. I just try to be around people that I have a something in common with. If you're trying to fit in with people it's impossible for them to become a friend. There is always someone who enjoys doing something that you enjoy doing, whether it be play bocce ball, or go for jogs, or read or whatever. It can be difficult to find these things but it does help. Eventually you'll find that these interests will carry over to other things and possibly a new friend. It sounds somewhat corny, and many of you will probably say that you've tried this and it doesn't work, but from what I've found, this works pretty well.

cheer up, emo kids!

thanks Jeff all the sudden I feel so much better

eww ... but, but Tim Hortons scares me .. I mean, in the Lincoln Plaza, people actually bring their freakin' lawn chairs and camp out in the parking lot .. with their kids! It's disgusting .. I mean get a life ..

I stayed home from work today too ... called in sick .. just feel crappy and couldn't put up with work today

I live down the road from the lincoln one and it's ALWAYS packed. At 3am the other night the parking lot was full. Apparently it's one of the highest selling Tim Hortons in Ontario.

i feel great so i'm going to work tonight which will be an extra day this week.

yay for jeff

ok guys. i need help.

i can't seem to stop having fun. i wake up and have fun. i go to work and have fun. i see my friends and have fun. it's like i'm constantly happy and smiling. what should i do? i also can't decide if i should date someone or not. comments plz.

Jeff - here's what you need to do. First, find a sad emo song and put that on. Then, create a bunch of trivial problems for yourself to worry about. Then, no matter how much you succeed, continue to compare it to other peoples successes and belittle your own accomplishments. make sure to use lots of angst.

it will also help if you approach the person you want to date by being cold and distant, and when she becomes turned off by you, moan about how she doesn't like you and how nothing ever goes your way.

lastly, never take accountability for your problems.

Yeah, that sounds like it would work.

Yup, that would probably work, let us know how it goes.

I don't cry very often, but when I do I cry and cry and cry. And I can't let anyone ever see me cry! I have a phobia of crying in public because I when I was younger I would just cry over the stupidest things constantly in front of people.

The last 2 months I've been really happy, having a good time and just enjoying my summer, but then yesterday happened and i'm finding it a little difficult to be happy. I just need to mope in my room for a day and I should be better tomorrow. I wish my best friend wasn't in another country right now, i need to talk to someone.